One Word Vision for 2023

Whatโ€™s your one word vision for 2023? Growth Space Peace Freedom Adventure Joy Empowerment https://youtu.be/2l6sO_77nw0

Growth Mindset in Challenging Times

https://youtu.be/ldOlNJ0ds0c The idea we have for our life rarely matches up with the life we end up with. Plan A is fantasy. Plan B is reality. Growth is not a straight line, which is often a blessing in disguise, yet something we seldom realize in the thick of life. How do we move on from... Continue Reading →

Peace Lives Here

 Peace happens in moments. Not days. Not weeks. Not years. Hot coffee. Cozy blankets. Birds singing. Deep breathing. https://youtu.be/tNXR9hCHZoc?si=lNaH-DE2kxo60oYe Peace happens in moments. Not days. Not weeks. Not years. Savour the sunshine. Taste every morsel. Dance with abandon. Stroll by the moonlight. Go for a bike ride. Peace happens in moments. Not days. Not weeks.... Continue Reading →

WHAT’S IN MY CONTROL?

Locus of Control is a key ingredient in resilience. Assessing what is within your control and sphere of influence is crucial. Decide what to let go of and what to surrender. This exercise should be practiced daily for optimal mental health and energy. https://youtu.be/W7dz0FvnkxY?si=WhAFJHR53EIV9q_p PSYCHOLOGY TEST Locus of Control TestDownload PSYCHOLOGY REFLECTION Whatโ€™s within your... Continue Reading →

Free Your Soul

https://youtu.be/1dwCnVQhpQ4?si=4r9fjY0ii_Cw_QNc Soul Reflections โšœ๏ธ What do you need to LET GO of to feel a sense well-being?  โšœ๏ธ Who and what do you no longer want to be OBLIGATED to? โšœ๏ธ If you had only one year to live, what five things would you STOP doing? โšœ๏ธ What JOY do you wish you had more... Continue Reading →

Anchor Yourself With Light

Take a moment and anchor yourself with something that lights you up. That reminds you that you are not alone in this storm. You have been here before. It may have been a personal pandemic, not a global one. But somehow, deep inside, you made it through. And you will again. You have the courage,... Continue Reading →

Let Your North Star Guide You

Mindfulness Tip: Look Up The sky connects us to something bigger than ourselves. Challenges appear small in comparison to the vastness of the sky. Solutions seem plausible. Answers come more easily. In the presence of stars, we embrace the profound and surrender it all. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0gMq9BNKvOA

What helps you adapt to change?

What helps you adapt to rapid, unpredictable, unexpected change? I asked this question of student leaders at a province wide conference. See student answers on the chalkboard below: My answer on the chalkboard was: GO SMALLER One day at a time. One hour at a time. One class at a time. Microseconds sometimes.. https://youtu.be/rUWGr_GwzhM Your... Continue Reading →

Enjoy Every Moment

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fd9TrYI75o0 Never let the things you want make you forget the things you already have. Nothing Lasts Forever. Good or Bad. Enjoy Every Moment. Embrace it. Be it. See it. Everything you appreciate is you reflecting back. Homework for Today Look Around You. Notice Things Like You Are Seeing Them for the Very First Time.... Continue Reading →

Freedom is realizing you have a choice

Freedom doesnโ€™t come from holding on. Freedom comes from letting go. Again and again and again. Universal Experience Too often we are hard on ourselves for having to release the same thought, emotion, person, or situation.  When in fact thatโ€™s how life goes. For all of us. Letting go and surrendering are an ongoing daily... Continue Reading →

Psychology Insights: Self Criticism to Self Compassion

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2DrNWX5JBGk WHY ARE WE SO HARD ON OURSELVES? Great question! One that Iโ€™m asked often. And one that I often ask myself. PSYCHOLOGY INSIGHTS What causes this behaviour? The answer is multifaceted and includes several factors. These factors include how we were parented. This aspect pertains to when the internalized superego and conscience first develop.... Continue Reading →

Let Your North Star Guide You

My Wish For You Today May you find peace in your home. And calm in your heart. No matter the storm. Psychology Thought for the Day The goal isnโ€™t to get rid of all our negative thoughts and emotions. The goal is to change our response to them. To accept them without judgement. To transcend... Continue Reading →

Emotional Freedom Technique for Social Anxiety & Imaginary Audience

Have you ever felt like youโ€™re being watched?  Judged and scrutinized. Like all eyes are on you and every potential error you make? Everyone experiences this phenomenon from time to time, especially when trying out something for the first time. Think back to the first time you gave a dinner party, swung a golf club,... Continue Reading →

Peer Pressure and Alcohol: Stand Your Sacred Ground

The Social Side Effects of Change Motivation to make a change is as much about you, as the people all around you. And unfortunately, not everyone agrees with our decision to grow, change, and evolve. In whatever form it may take. โ€œBeing different isn't a bad thing. It means you're brave enough to be yourselfโ€œ... Continue Reading →

Breathe. Trust. Let Go.

Trust that everything is working out as it should. In divine time. In divine order. For your highest good. 'Theseย mountainsย thatย you are carrying,ย youย were only supposed to climb.โ€ Breathe. Trust. Let Go.

Choice and transformation go hand in hand.

โ€œEmpowerment is realizing you have a choice.โ€ My mission in life is to encourage people to own their choices โ€“ no matter how big or how small.ย In doing so, individuals will uncover the magnificent power that lives withinย them. Embracing the power to choose oneโ€™s emotions, thoughts, and reactions to lifeโ€™s circumstances is the key which... Continue Reading →

Taming Your Monkey Mind

Nature is a beautiful way to stopย the monkey mindย in itsโ€™ tracks. What is the monkey mind? โ€œBuddha described the human mind as being filled with drunken monkeys, jumping around, screeching, chattering, carrying on endlessly. Fear is an especially loud monkey -  screaming out all the things that could go wrong.โ€ Source: HuffPost  When weโ€™re caught... Continue Reading →

Rest in Truth

Truth is truth Let them talk. Let them chatter. Let them say what they choose to say. Because at the end of the day truth is truth. And nothing can stand in its way Rest. Relax. Sit back. Breathe in deep. Stop trying to convince anybody and everybody of anything and everything. At the end of the day... Continue Reading →

Happiness in Present Time

โ€œThe art of being happy lies in the power of extracting happiness from common things.โ€ Our left brain lives in the past and the future. Our right brain lives in the here and now. One scrambles for solutions to problem after problem. The other sinks into the present moment, trusting all is well. Which side... Continue Reading →

Shed the stress. Let. It. Fall.๐Ÿ‚

This post was inspired by a stressful situation that I could not let go of. No matter how hard I tried. Day in day out. The worry would reappear. Then someone suggested that I โ€œshed the stress" and a lightbulb went off. Each time the repetitive thought appeared, I imagined a tree shedding its leaves.... Continue Reading →

You are more powerful than you’ll ever know.

This moment. This day. THIS LIFE. Is yours for the taking. Don't be afraid to step into your power. https://youtube.com/shorts/_kBlKrI8RQ8?feature=share It is you. And you are it. Empowerment is the reason you were born. Face It โ€” You Are Strong!

Breathing Space.

  Look up โ†‘ Breatheย โ†‘ Release One quick glance to inner peace. Related Post:ย Always Looking Up.  

5 Steps to Thriving based on Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs

In this psychology video and article I share 5 Steps to Thriving and Growth using Maslowโ€™s Hierarchy of Needs. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SyGHeBzGwUU&feature=youtu.be Read the article and watch the video, then try out the reflection questions below. https://issuu.com/sabooster/docs/thedrive_143_issuu/72 Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs Reflection Questions Which deficiency needs (physiological, safety) are currently met vs. unmet? Which growth needs (love... Continue Reading →

Stop Complaining. Start Changing.

โ€œGo 24 hours without complaining and watch your life start changing.โ€ The next time youโ€™re tempted to complain about the same thing over and over again, direct that same frustrated energy into your highest, loftiest goals.  Consciously swap one complaint for one baby step towards your dreams.  Same energy required. Magically different results.  To view... Continue Reading →

Face It – You are Strong!

Everything you're afraid of - you've already experienced. Afraid of commitment? You've been dumped. Afraid of failure? You've failed. Afraid of rejection? You've been rejected. Afraid of being broke? You've been without money. Fill in the blanks for me.. Afraid of being _________? You've been _________. And then vow to erase that fear in your... Continue Reading →

Better to Bend Than Break

When life changes direction, are you able to change with it? Are you flexible and open to new experiences? Are you able to break free from old patterns and habits? Or do you struggle to adapt to anything new and different? Flexibility and Change In this interview on CBC-TV, Chris Hyndman and I examine the... Continue Reading →

Lay down your burdens.

No more futile tests. No more unrelenting trials. No more self inflicted tribulations. Lay down your burdens. Let. Them. Go. Take a breath. Take a rest. You have strengthened from your burdens. You have overcome great obstacles. You have developed. You have grown. You have earned yourย freedom ten times over. Trust your wisdom. Trustย your wings.... Continue Reading →

YOU HOLD THE KEY

POWER OF LIGHT Even though we often have little control over the โ€œoutside forcesโ€ in our lives, we can always make a positive difference -ย from the inside out. Start here. Right here. Right now. Be still. Breathe in gratitude. Be thankful for this very moment. Start small. Notice your passing thoughts. Let go. Awareness empowers.... Continue Reading →

Curing the disease to please. One no at a time.

"You can be a good person with a kind heart and still say no." The Beauty of NO. When you learn to say noย to something you no longer want to do, to people you no longer want to spend time with, to projects you no longer have time for, your world does not get smaller.... Continue Reading →

Give yourself a break.

I work hard. Too hard sometimes. And I bet you do too. On one hand, that's fantastic. You wouldn't be where you are without steadfastness and sacrifice. On the other hand, having a singular focus on work ultimately shortchanges your potential. Rest is part of the equation. Rest is critical for success. At life and... Continue Reading →

Stay True to Your Higher Purpose

https://youtube.com/shorts/m6TRDdEHMpU?si=E42ekTJCpKYR4h-I Life is too short to be sidetracked by the opinion of others. Stay true to your higher purpose. Your destiny awaits.๐Ÿ’ซ

New beginnings.

New beginnings. Fate. Destiny. And back again. New beginnings. Full of fright. Hope. Trepidation.ย Exaltation.ย Panic. And back again. New beginnings. Lost footing. Found fortune. Full moons. Rainy nights. Sun drenched days. And back again. New beginnings. Rough and tumble. Joyful. Sadness. Overwhelm to underwhelm. And back again. New beginnings.ย Misplaced dreams. Found sanctuary. Outstretched hands. Yearning heart.... Continue Reading →

Follow your feelings.

Instead of focusing on what you want TO DO. Focus on how you want TO FEEL. Desired Feeling โ‡” Supporting Behaviour Strong โ‡” Move your body. Valuable โ‡” Help someone. Lighthearted โ‡” See a funny movie. Joyful โ‡” Go dancing with friends. Free โ‡” Unshackle from daily regimes & routines. Inspired โ‡” Spend time with... Continue Reading →

The Sweet Spot

Nowhere else to be That moment in the day when you realize you have arrived. And the most interesting part is that you haven't gone anywhere. Instead, you finally come home to the present moment. The here and now. The sweet spot. The only place there is.

Whatโ€™s Your Favourite Resilience Quote? Hereโ€™s mine:

What quotes lift you up? Ignite your soul? Light your way? Whatโ€™s Your Favourite Resilience Quote? Hereโ€™s mine: Hereโ€™s mine โ€” โ€œYou have seen my descent. Now watch my rising.โ€

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